Met them.Meant to follow up.Then you forgot.

The executive assistant for your own network.

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Nobody decides to let their network go quiet. You just get busy, and nothing reminds you.

What the research saysBurt (2002) · Roberts and Dunbar (2015)

Of 100 relationships,this is how many are left after 1 year.

Personal

Friends and acquaintances

Everyone you know outside of work not including family.

Professional

Your professional network

Founders, contractors, executives, anyone building a career.

Every one of them was one reminder away.

What is Setten

A network relationshipmanager for your iPhone.

Setten reminds you.One engine, two sets of rules, for everyone you know.

  • Walk in knowing what you owe them.
  • Be the one who followed up.
  • Nothing goes cold unnoticed.
  1. 01 · A call or a meeting ends

    Setten asks whileyou still remember.

    The call finishes, or the meeting comes off your calendar, and a notification arrives minutes later.

  2. 02 · You answer, Setten files it

    Fifteen seconds,and it is filed.

    By voice or one line. Setten writes the note, pulls out the promises and the facts with their dates, and puts them on their page.

  3. 03 · Before the next one

    A brief, twohours before.

    What you last talked about, and what you still owe them.

  4. 04 · Your home page

    Everything you owe,on one page.

    Yesterday's conversations, the promises still open, who has gone quiet, and the question waiting. Setten keeps the whole day on your home page.

Setten

01 · A call or a meeting ends

Setten asks while you still remember.

The call finishes, or the meeting comes off your calendar, and a notification arrives minutes later.

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A page for everyone

Everything you knowabout someone, in one place.

  • Contacts
  • Calendars
  • Notes you add after a call
  • EmailComing soon
  • MessagesComing soon
  • LinkedInComing soon
  • Meeting notesComing soon
Setten

What Setten cannot do.

  • Will notsend a message as you.
  • Will notread anything in the background.
  • Will nottake over your address book.
  • Will notinvite anyone to anything.
  • Will notrecord where you go.
  • Will notkeep what you delete.
  • Cannotcapture a conference.
  • Does notread WhatsApp or iMessage today.

Start curating your network now.

Executive assistant

Basic

£25/month

Getting started.

Start 14 days free

Includes a 14 day free trial

  • Notes, details and reminders
  • A brief before your next meeting
  • Reconnect prompts and rhythm tracking
  • Personal and professional engines
See everything included
  • Sort the room, and the count of your last fourteen months before you answer anything
  • The question after every meeting, by voice or by text
  • Notes, details and reminders with their dates, filed under the right person
  • A brief, two hours before you meet again
  • Rhythm tracking and reconnect prompts, on both sides of your life
  • Common Ground on the people you work with
  • Both engines, personal and professional, included

Executive assistant

Professional

£35/month

For extreme networks.

Get the app

Everything in Basic, plus

  • Multiple calendars, synced together
  • Stronger model for briefs and summaries
  • Higher usage limits
  • Priority support
See everything included

Everything in Basic, plus:

  • More than one calendar, synced together
  • Briefs and summaries written by the stronger model
  • Higher limits, for a week with a lot of meetings in it
  • Worth an intro, flagged when someone is
  • Every outside fact carries its source, its date and a link
  • Priority support

Questions.

What happens after a call or a meeting?

When a call ends, or a meeting comes off your calendar, Setten sends a notification asking what happened, while you still remember. You answer by voice, or with a quick message, and fifteen seconds is usually enough.

Setten writes the note, pulls out the details with their dates, files everything under the right person, and then shows you what was written down.

Say not now, or nothing at all, and Setten asks once more a week later, then lets it go.

What is in the brief?

Two hours before you meet someone again, Setten writes a short brief: what you last talked about, and what you could talk about this time.

The brief is drawn from your own notes, so you walk in knowing what you would have remembered on a better day.

How does Setten know a rhythm has slipped?

Every relationship has its own rhythm. Setten measures each one from your calendar, person by person, and tells you when the gap has grown past that rhythm, while it is still an easy message to write.

That is a report, never a score.

Does Setten write to my contacts?

When you mention someone new, Setten adds one card to your Contacts. When you confirm a detail about someone, Setten can put that detail on their card.

Setten never deletes a contact, and removing a person from Setten removes only what Setten wrote. You can turn the whole thing off.

What does Setten do with my calendar?

Setten asks for full calendar access and today only reads. If something you say has a date on it, Setten can put a reminder in your own calendar, visible only to you.

A reminder Setten writes is never sent to the other person, and Setten never edits or deletes an event Setten did not create.

Does Setten listen to my calls, or read my messages?

No. Setten sees that a call happened and how long it lasted, the same thing your recent calls list shows you. Setten does not listen, and there is no recording and no transcript.

There is no background reader either. Setten sees calendar entries, contact cards, call events, and what you choose to tell it. Nothing else.

There is no sending code in the app. Anything Setten drafts, you copy out yourself.

What about my location?

When a meeting ends Setten checks once whether you were where the meeting was, keeps the yes or no, and keeps no record of where you go.

What happens if I delete my account?

Deleting your account removes everything within thirty days, backups included, and the deletion is replayed if a backup is ever restored.

What can Setten not cover?

A conference is two days and forty conversations arriving as one calendar entry with no attendee list. Setten can help with the aftermath, not the capture.

Setten does not read WhatsApp or iMessage today, so a relationship that lives entirely in messages is one Setten cannot see yet. Messages, email and social are on the way, and each is a source you would connect yourself. Setten never reads anything in the background.

What is the difference between the two tiers?

Basic is the whole product: the question after every call and meeting, the brief, the rhythms on both sides of your life.

Professional is for a heavier calendar. More than one calendar synced together, briefs written by the stronger model, higher limits, and every outside fact carrying its source, its date and a link.

How does the free trial work?

Fourteen days free on Basic, no card. On day fifteen Setten asks you to subscribe through Apple, and nothing is charged before you do.

What do I need to run Setten?

An iPhone on iOS 26 or later, and the Calendar app on that iPhone, which also covers Google and Outlook accounts signed in on the phone.

Setten asks for calendar, contacts and notifications, the microphone when you answer by voice, and your location when a meeting ends.

Why Setten?

接点, setten, is Japanese for a point of contact: the place where two things touch. The name was chosen for the meaning.

Your next meetingis already in the diary.

Setten will be there when it ends.

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